Yet, we must never forget the real frantic energy that
IS ENERGIZING all these thoughts and mental pictures - the
deep CRAVING you have to smoke.
This FEELING that people
have been telling you for centuries is..... the nearest thing
to hell.
This FEELING that you don't want to
face.
This feeling that you are so convinced
that you won't be able to handle it.
Well, may I ask you:
HAVE YOU EVER
REALLY EXPERIENCED THE CRAVING TO SMOKE AS IT REALLY
IS? REALLY EXPERIENCED IT MOMENT-BY-MOMENT?
HAVE YOU EVER STAYED IN THE PRESENT MOMENT AND ACTUALLY FELT
IT --- AND NOT YOUR MIND'S INTERPRETATION OR
EXPECTATION OF HOW IT SHOULD BE ?
THE
A,B,C.....
Giving up smoking is very simple.
You make a choice not to smoke.
However, many times during the day,
especially during those trigger occasions that you have linked
so closely with smoking - you will WANT to smoke. Don't make
yourself wrong for feeling like this.
There is nothing wrong with this.
In the past, you found smoking
enjoyable - because of false associations - so it is only
natural, that for a while after you become a nonsmoker, that
you will have these strong
urges.
Do not revert back to the old way and
hate these desires and yourself for having them.
Don't let your mind run away and take
you away from this close non-judgmental inspection.
For the first time, you are NOT going
to run away from this feeling that you get when you can't
smoke.
You
have been doing this your whole life.
Simply stay in the moment. Don't let
your mind take you away from what is really happening NOW.
Stay open and relaxed and notice how
you feel now.
You
may feel empty, uneasy, anxious but if you don't let your
mind exaggerate these feelings, you will realize that they
are only temporary and NO BIG DEAL.
YOU
WILL REALIZE THAT THIS IS ALL THERE IS TO IT.
THERE
IS NOTHING ELSE TO WAIT FOR AND SOON EVEN THESE TEMPORARY
SLIGHT FEELINGS WILL BE GONE.
Yes - that is all there is to it.
There is nothing else to wait
for.
However, because we all believe the old
MYTHS that giving up smoking MUST be hell and
extremely difficult - we cannot believe that this is all there
is to it.
So we conclude....... that
there is something wrong - and then the idea pops into
our head:
"Ah, maybe it hasn't come yet.
That's it. I'll just wait. I bet you very soon I will
experience the real agony - the real pain that everybody
speaks about. "
And so you wait around, day after day
anxious, worried, fearful - waiting for this terrible drama -
this great test. It is an illusion.
KEY
IDEA:
You
have already gone through it.
What we described above IS IT. There
is NOTHING
to wait for. |