"It took me about a week after
I had given up to realize how vitally important this power of
decision is.
I noticed after about three
days of non-smoking that I was beginning to find it difficult.
There were
no physical symptoms, just an urge to smoke which, in itself
I didn't mind as I was prepared for this and knew I could
cope quite easily with it.
What I began to find difficult
was the so called 'brainwashing'.
My mind began playing tricks.
When I felt the urge to smoke, my mind would cloth it up with
such reasonable excuses....
'You have done well so far - why
not have just one cigarette to celebrate'
or
'You have a big day coming up next week. Why not
postpone giving up now - and start again after the big
day.......
I knew these thoughts were all
crap.
Although they all sounded reasonable, I knew deep down
they were jut excuses - my brain working overtime trying to
give me an excuse to smoke.
Yet I was allowing myself to
think about them - to consider them as a real possibility.
As this went on, I was beginning to feel drained, tried and
frustrated and fearful - the fear that I would give in. What
was going wrong ?
Then I realized there was
still a part of me that still hadn't fully decided that I
had stopped smoking.
That is why I was getting involved with
these doubts and using up so much energy trying to pretend
they didn't exist.
I read the notes on the Lesson
The Power of Decision and thought....'Why am I even bothering
with these excuses?
I have made a decision.
I AM a
non-smoker. I am not going to smoke again.
So why am I even
wasting my energy getting involved with these
thoughts........., fighting them..........,worrying about them and trying to make
them disappear.
I then felt a great sense of
relief.
I think most people understand this feeling.
It is
when you have made a final decision once and for all and you
know that's it.
Then, in a mysterious way, they....the excuses
seem to stop
or not come as often. They seem to sense there is no point
bothering you any more - as your mind is made up and any
doubts or excuses would be just wasting their
time!"
If you can adopt the same
attitude as Michael, you will find giving up so easy when the time is
right for you make that firm decision.
The decision is simple: You are never going
to smoke again no matter WHAT HAPPENS in your
life.
KEY IDEA.
I am a
non-smoker - thus I do not smoke. Final. Full stop.
.
If you can make a decision
like this - it will make giving up smoking as easy as
pie.
Soon, you will be making such a decision.
But first, let try to realize the full truth
about the withdrawal period which you will soon be experiencing......
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