We are soon going to ask you to make a
solemn vow that no matter
what happens in your life from now on, you are never going to
smoke that first cigarette again.
Please never forget the following.
Burn these facts into your mind. Reread
this lesson again and again.
When you stop smoking, you are NOT
making a sacrifice. The enjoyment
does not come from the cigarette.
It simply triggers
it off.
You will not face any great horror or
pain when you stop.
Remember the law : What you resists persists.
When you stop, do not worry or get
uptight when you get these cravings to smoke.
Simply acknowledge and accept that you
will get them.
They are a natural part of giving up.
In fact, to enjoy giving
up you should welcome
and rejoice
in them.
In fact, the more
times you have these cravings, the better.
It will give
you more opportunities not to fear or fight them, but
to simply stand back and watch them as if you were watching a
beautiful landscape.
So when you get the feeling 'I would
love to smoke - accept it as perfectly natural. The feeling
isn't bad. What is important is how we deal with it.
Whenever you get the feeling, whether
it is once or a hundred times a day - it
doesn't matter.
Simply allow and accept it. Stay
in the moment.
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Remain a
spectator.
And if you can
maintain this simple, neutral, non-judgmental
awareness, like a scientist............ the
energy of the feeling will change and the desire will
simply dissolve of it's own accord.
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Words
cannot explain this extraordinary, simple but powerful
process. It must be experienced.
So every time you simply allow - and
do not get anxious or worried about them - what you are really
doing, for the first time, is not giving them any more
energy or life.......
And like everything in life, without energy
and attention it will soon die out and be gone for
ever.
So, in the next three weeks or
so...... welcome this
feeling ' I would really love a cigarette', whenever it comes!
DOUBT
However, there is one thing you must
never never do:
Never question or doubt your decision
never to smoke again once you have made it.
This deep feeling or desire for a
cigarette is real and you must be very careful that you do not
allow it to question or doubt your decision with thoughts such
as......
'Maybe I'll have just one.'
Or the most common and dangerous
thought of all.....
'Maybe now is not the best time. No
I'll have one cigarette now but I'll definitely start next
week'.
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