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Do you see how this relates to
your smoking ? Even though you now know that the physical
withdrawal symptoms from nicotine will be so mild as to be
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if you still believe the old myths that it will be
difficult and that you will have to suffer - then your subconscious
mind will produce those symptoms for you and that is what you will
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It is as if we have all been unconsciously
hypnotized by society and we are only now beginning to wake up.
The fault does not lie in the cigarette or
in the fact that you are no longer supplying your body with nicotine.
The fault lies in the false brainwashing you have blindly
accepted about giving up
smoking.
The Myth Of
Pleasure
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Smoking and TV.
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This belief is strong. The belief that you need
to smoke to be happy. To survive.
Tobacco companies,
for example have spent literally billions of pounds in very clever, subtle
subliminal advertising linking pleasurable states of mind to the act of
smoking and you too have contributed to this false belief (Step
4).
The initial pleasure came from the relief
of
satisfying your body's urge for nicotine but you unconsciously accentuated
that pleasure and associated it - in fact you made it dependent upon the
act of smoking.
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KEY
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Even though smoking is
not pleasurable the BELIEF that it is KEEPS us smoking.
To enjoy giving up smoking, you must start to
question and weaken this belief and then your desire and need to smoke will go.
AN EXERCISE
To reinforce this vital truth in your mind, I
want you to repeat an important exercise we did in a previous
lesson.
I want you to smoke another cigarette but
this time I want you to pay FULL ATTENTION to what
you are doing.
Relax your mind now and slowly go through the
ritual of smoking - the pure physical act of smoking a
cigarette.
Now lit up, take six deep slow puffs from
the cigarette -- all the time being FULLY AWARE of what you are doing.
Concentrate FULLY on the smoke going into your lungs.
Don't just do this
exercise mentally in your head - actually smoke that cigarette now - IN
THE WAY PRESCRIBED. [this exercise does not apply if you have already
stopped smoking. Instead use your imagination]
Don't let any emotions or feelings arise -
just CONCENTRATE on the ACTUAL
MECHANICS of
what you do everyday, when you smoke.
Now describe the marvelous sensations that
you are receiving.
Tell us about the wonderful experience that the rest of
us are being deprived of -- RIGHT NOW as you smoke with FULL AWARENESS.
What feelings do you have........... when you smoke
while you remain fully AWARE and CONSCIOUS of what you are doing.
Probably none at all!
In fact, you begin to
realize that to enjoy smoking, you have to actually forget what you are
actually doing!!
We now know the reason for this.
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The pleasure
does not come from the cigarette but from the pleasurable sensations we
ourselves unconsciously transfer to it.
This is the great puzzle facing smokers.
We
know, at least intellectually that we will not suffer any great physical pain
when we stop.
We also know, again intellectually that when we look at
it objectively - smoking per se is really not enjoyable or pleasurable.
But we still find it
difficult to give up.
Why is this ?
Because we have not yet given
up the BELIEF that smoking is pleasurable and that if we stop, we
will be missing out or being deprived of something.
This is the
core belief:
We
believe we NEED to smoke to be happy. To survive. To just get by.
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